It is true that home is our first school and that our family is our
first teacher and friend. What value they instill to us is simply what
we are enjoying right now. It mainly made us who we are right now. When
we say value, it has also something to do with the way we dress. You may
never wear sexy prom dresses or show off flaunt prom dresses if they
strictly prohibit it.
While there are families that do not
strictly impose rules at home, there are those that strictly structuring
and shaping their family members with unified and pass on values
(values inherited from their elders). Though we are living in a freer
and politically independent society today, it is still important to
impose limits and boundaries. These limitations and boundaries are first
learned at home. The more we are exposed to a home and family that
respects boundary, the more we are likely to become patient and
respectful.
Certainly, family values will also reflect to the
society you are living in. Say, a home with full of violence and anger.
This kind of value will definitely be practiced in your environment.
Expect a truly violent, disrespectful and even unfriendly manners that
will keep on devastating the entire neighborhood.
Sometimes, a
home molded with conventional practices is strict not only with what
will become of the members' manners but also to the practices they will
be showing to other people. Say, flaunt prom dresses for the first ever
prom night. It is impossible to leave home with your sexy prom dresses
on.
What molds a family to possess right values?
When we say
family, we are referring to a social unit or group of people living
together. Family may consist with many or few members. Regardless the
number, every member is distinct from each other though they are raised
and molded with the same value. This is naturally true since individuals
are truly unique from each other just like the exquisiteness of our
thumb.
The science of cohering should be imposed correctly. Though
family members are molded to love, respect and help each other, it does
not mean that everyone should stick with each other forever. As each
member grows up and reaches the adulthood, chances are each one will
definitely build their own family and leave home. That is why it is
important to make everyone understand that though they are living
together for a moment, they should develop individuality and sense of
responsibility.
Proper communication should be practiced at home.
Th
ere are no arguments that cannot be settled with a proper and rational
conversation. Openness from each other through constant conversation
can definitely build a healthy and strong family values. Family members
nurtured by this kind of values can often express their feelings. Say, a
dream to wear one of those sexy prom dresses. They can have the more
freedom to speak for their thoughts and choice. This may help them
develop the sense of socialism and friendship. People who are molded
with this attitude are society's asset. They are open to reach to others
and help.
One another significant thing to nurture the kids is
the importance of decision-making. Weighing things before imposing a
decision is really essential. A firm and right decision can build a
healthy and wise individual that can be beneficial of building a rich
and healthy society
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